Just make the ask!

People always seem surprised when I tell them that I raise over $5,000+ every year for the American Diabetes Association. I hear a lot about, “Isn’t that awkward to ask people for money?” I actually don’t think it is…and here’s why…

The cause of diabetes is so personal to me and I’ve met thousands of people who also have  the disease. I know the struggles that come along with living with a chronic illness and remember the faces of the people who’ve told me their stories. I’ve seen where the dollars go that are raised through the association and believe in the work that they are doing and accomplishing.

I sit on the Community Leadership Board for the American Diabetes Association and last week I was asked to speak at our monthly meeting about “making the ask”. When I’m asking people to donate to the cause and/or to volunteer for an event…I’m asking people that I know and who know me. Just like I would want to help a friend if they have a cause that’s so personal to them, I feel like vice versa I’m just telling people what I’m up to and my life’s passion….helping find a cure for diabetes. I’m never offended if people say no to me…I just think I need to ask more people.

Two weeks ago I was out to dinner with a good friend of mine who also happens to have type-1 diabetes. We were at The Lowry in Uptown. Without even thinking I took my insulin pump out of my pocket, dialed up my bolus dose, and then sat the device on the table…while continuing to talk with my friend. I don’t know if 5 or 10 minutes passed but a young woman around my age approached our table and she asked me, “You have type-1 diabetes?” I said yes without even realizing that she must of seen my pump. I told her yes I do and that I’d worn a Medtronic pump for the last 11 years. My friend also told her, her diabetes journey. With tears in her eyes, Dez told us both about how much this meant to her to meet other people her age living with type-1. At that moment I asked her if she would be interested in meeting other people with type-1 at the sub-committee I run for diabetes advocacy. She instantly said YES when I told her it would be tomorrow at my house. The reason why I tell this story is for a couple of reasons…

1. When you’re open and comfortable to talk about your disease…you just never know how that can affect a total stranger’s life around you. Don’t we all want to try to give hope to another person?

2. If I wouldn’t have told her about the sub-committee meeting she would never had known about it. She came to the meeting that next night and said she feels incredibly blessed to be in such a great, supportive group.

MAKE THE ASK! Some may say no, but the ones who say YES make it totally worthwhile.

ZAMRIE is on My Habit (Amazon!)

Has this ever happened to you…you have type-1 diabetes and a mutual friend introduces you to another person with type-1 diabetes and you instantly feel like you’ve known that person for years? Like you have an instant bond? When I met my diabetes soul mate 6 years ago it was just like that. Ashley is funny, passionate, driven, beautiful, kind, supportive,

Ashley flew to MN to support me at Miss MN

Ashley flew to MN to support me at Miss MN

adventurous, and incredibly generous. She also happens to have had type-1 diabetes since she was a baby. We were introduced when we were both living in New York City for the summer doing college internships…me at a fortune-500 financial company…her at Zac Posen (she definitely had the cooler gig). The moment I met her I knew we would be lifelong friends. We just got each other. We knew what it was like living with type-1 diabetes every minute of our life. We could finish each other’s sentences. Something that we really bonded on was going after our individual dreams. Ashley has been one of my biggest cheerleaders in the quest to raise more awareness about diabetes & getting my book published. I have been cheering for her in the front row of her college graduation fashion show at Purdue. I’m BEYOND thrilled and excited for her that AMAZON has recognized her incredible talent as a fashion designer. This week ONLY her stuff is being featured on “My Habit”, the fashion end of amazon.com. You can buy her items there (at a great price!) until Friday morning. Please check out her website as well and support my lovely friend, Ashley Zygmunt for Zamrie. http://www.myhabit.com -> Scroll down to Zamrie www.zamrie.com

My favorite item in my closet...a housecoat by Zamrie!

My favorite item in my closet…a housecoat by Zamrie!

More about Zamrie: After working under Zac Posen and Peter Som in New York, designer Ashley Zygmunt returned to her hometown of Chicago in 2009 launching the ZAMRIE label with the mission to create timeless pieces for women that are both fresh and classic.